Today was mindfulness. As you are undoubtedly aware by now, this is a really important part of my life. I believe that it leads to me living a more fulfilling life, to being easier to be around and enables me to consider how I can positively contribute to society. As I drove home the 5 principles of every child matters popped into my head. You may be asking where is she going and how is this relevant?
As many of you will know, I previously worked as a lecturer and researcher in Higher Education, focusing on early childhood. One of the things that I believe is that many of the issues that are focused on in the early years sector are applicable throughout our lives. However often these are pushed aside in favour of other issues that are seen as being more mature. Yet the reality is that we need to strip back and consider these issues because they impact on our lives and on our impact on the lives of those around us.

In 2004 a policy document was published by the UK government; Every child matters: change for children. The policy, which is no longer UK policy, was the first piece of legislation that was underpinned by research. The strategy consisted of 5 principles:
● being healthy
● staying safe
● enjoying and achieving
● making a positive contribution
● economic well-being
In many respects these can be considered to be a re-framing of other principles and ideas that have been developed since the time of Aristotle. However these are very straightforward and can be easily applied to our adult lives. We all want to be healthy and as adults we are able to contribute to our own health, we can choose our food and our exercise. We need to keep ourselves safe; be that from physical or emotional dangers. We all want to be able to enjoy our lives and feel that we are achieving our goals. Being part of society means that we try to provide positive contributions even if only in a small way. Finally we all need to be financially secure.
Walking the dogs, going to pilates classes, and engaging in mindfulness as well almost entirely eating home prepared food is how that I attempt to be healthy. I believe that I attempt to keep myself physically and emotionally safe. In the past I set myself challenging goals. I continue to set goals but now they tend to be associated with crafting. I am always pleased when I complete something new and gain a real sense of achievement. I would like to make a positive contribution in a number of different ways. At the moment on a small scale, I am making squares for our local Christmas tree. Longer term I would like to do something to support others in becoming both positive and creative. Finally I would not say that we are financially secure but we do have a small regular income. This means that we can pay for the basics and as we develop our businesses here we will be able to become more financially secure.
I would be interested in your responses to the five principles. Do you think that they are important in all of our lives? Until tomorrow…




I think what’s important is human flourishing Zenna where every single child born into our human family is healthy, safe, loved and happy. Trying to capture what this might mean will be different to individuals based on their own unique experience and culture.
We each respond to the peaks and troughs if life differently so I would most wish for my grand-babies that they are resilient. Mindfulness helps here (as does meditation) because we can only live in THIS moment. ‘Yesterday’s history, tomorrow’s a mystery, this moment a gift – which is why we call it the present’
It’s very rare to find someone untouched by sorrow, without pain BUT the future starts in this moment and so the ability to stand again and hope, in this moment (to me) is invaluable.
And within our moments we need to be compassionate to others who may not be able to get up and start again, may have lost hope. We can sit beside them and just be, in case they need a helping hand
I know from our conversations that we both have stood up, time and again. We’ve been knocked back down – but as Maya Angelou says ‘but still like air, (we) rise’.
In summary: life can take everything we care for (as war, famine, disaster, bankruptcy, illness, divorce, bereavement show us).
What we all need, and we both have, is the courage and resilience to rise again and again and again 🙏🏽🌸🙏🏽
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Thank you. And I love your reference to Maya Angelou.
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